The Buyer’s Reality Check
Trends come and go, but some arrive with more hype than substance. Having seen thousands of garments move through the retail machine, I’ve developed a pretty good radar for what will actually last versus what will end up in the regret pile.
Here are five trends I’m personally sitting out this season — and the honest reasons why.
1. Super Exaggerated Shoulders
The big shoulder trend has been building, but this season’s versions feel like costume pieces. Massive structured shoulders that make you look like a linebacker might be dramatic on the runway, but they’re impractical for real life.
Why I’m skipping: They limit layering, make sitting in cars and at desks uncomfortable, and most versions look dated quickly. I prefer subtle tailoring that actually flatters real shoulders.
2. Micro Mini Skirts (Again)
We’ve been here before. While a mini can be cute in the right context, the ultra-short versions dominating feeds right now feel disconnected from how most women over 30 actually live.
Why I’m skipping: Denver weather, practical movement, and sitting like a normal human make them challenging. I’d rather invest in versatile midi lengths that I’ll actually wear multiple times a week.
3. Transparent or “Barely There” Fabrics
Sheer everything is having a moment, but the execution in many mainstream pieces feels more revealing than intentional.
Why I’m skipping: I want clothes that make me feel confident, not self-conscious about needing multiple layers or perfect undergarments. There are smarter ways to play with texture and lightness.
4. Heavy Distressing and Deconstruction
Jeans and jackets with intentional rips, fraying, and patches in very specific placements feel too costume-y for everyday wear.
Why I’m skipping: They age poorly, look messy after a few washes, and limit versatility. I prefer natural wear that develops over time on quality pieces.
5. Extreme Platform Shoes
The higher-the-better platform trend is back, but many versions sacrifice comfort and practicality for drama.
Why I’m skipping: I want to actually walk — on trails, through breweries, and through my daily life. A moderate heel or a great flat does the job without destroying my feet or stability.
What I’m Choosing Instead
Rather than chasing these trends, I’m focusing on:
Beautiful tailoring with soft structure
Rich textures and quality fabrics
Versatile midi lengths
Thoughtful details that enhance rather than overwhelm
Comfortable shoes I can actually live in
The Bigger Lesson from Years of Trend Watching
The trends that last aren’t usually the loudest ones. They’re the ones that solve real problems or enhance how we actually live. Exaggerated pieces might get likes, but wearable, well-made clothes get worn.
My cost-per-wear numbers don’t lie — the quiet, quality pieces almost always win in the long run.
How to Decide What to Skip
Ask yourself these questions before buying into a big trend:
Will I wear this more than 10–15 times?
Does it work with what I already own?
Is it comfortable for my actual daily life?
Will it still look good next year?
If the answer is no to more than one, it’s probably safe to skip.
My Current Focus Areas
I’m doubling down on beautiful basics, strategic statement pieces that are still wearable, and quality outerwear that will serve me for years. These choices feel calmer, more confident, and more aligned with my real life in Denver.
Final Thoughts
It’s okay to sit trends out. Fashion should serve you — not the other way around. Trust your instincts, buy what feels good on your body and in your life, and let the rest pass by.
What trends are you skipping this season? I’d love to hear your reasons in the comments. We can skip together.
Wear what works for you and go, friends.
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